Thursday, August 03, 2006

Yesterday’s weather on the South Channel was the polar opposite from Monday’s. It was overcast all day, with rumblings of thunder that finally let loose in impressive fashion as we were treated to a classic full-blown Georgian Bay electrical storm. There was lots of thunder and lightning, which I fully enjoyed, but Ian and Courage the dog weren’t too sure of. It all culminated with a torrential downpour that more than thoroughly soaked the place and cooled things right down. During the storm we had several flickers of our lights, but this time Ontario Hydro won out and the power stayed on.

Today the weather was iffy, with the sun working to poke through overcast skies. The temperature was pleasant and there was a slight breeze, which is a far cry from the torrid weather back in New York. Kiera, Ian, Courage, and I went in to town around noon to do errands and pick up the rest of the Topping Crew; my mom, wife, sister, and nephew, and Mom’s two dogs Sounder and Parker. We timed things perfectly and met up in Sobey’s parking lot, where I pulled in right next to Mom who was waiting with the dogs at the car. She was more than happy to see us.

Mom has been a bit apprehensive about returning to the cottage. However, soon after we arrived at the island she found herself relieved at how quickly she got caught up in the beauty of the area and rediscovering the joy of just being here. This is still a very difficult time for our family, with each of trying to find our way through process of coping with our loss. This trip promises to be especially emotional, because Mom brought half of Pop’s ashes with her and we are planning on scattering them tomorrow if the weather cooperates. We will be taking a shore lunch to enjoy on Mineral Island, and Mom has a special tree in mind that Pop used to sit on where we will spread some of the ashes. We will also scatter some in the channel off our dock and inter some on our property. Although we are all grieving over our loss, we are upbeat about honoring Pop’s wishes and moving closer to some kind of closure. Pop would be proud.

3 Comments:

  • At Fri Aug 04, 12:10:45 AM, Anonymous said…

    I have been sure this trip would be a difficult trip for all of you, AND a time to get on with life. The Stan Topping I knew would be extremely proud of all of you. You have done a magnificient job of keeping us informed Lance. Kiera's pictures were beautiful, what a lovely day she had. I was so pleased to see Carol at the tri-parish picnic. What a gracious and loving woman she is. Lance I think when I first knew you you were three, but I remember Johanna being born and look at Johanna now, sucessful with a son, a truly loving and caring person. Definitely her Mother's daughter. You all turns out well. I'm so proud to have shared the years and time with you all.

    On another note: send us some cool weather... please.... It is midnight in Hornell the temperature is at 70.7 and heat index at 76.

    Hugs and friendship,
    Anne Coddington, Hornell, NY, USA

     
  • At Mon Aug 14, 05:01:37 PM, Andrew C said…

    There is somthing about McLaren Island that makes parents want these things .. we are over on the 5 Mile Bay side of the island Mom and Dad have the same plans about their ashes.
    That storm was a nasty one, I had to drive Mom and Dad into town right after the worst of it.

     
  • At Thu Aug 17, 11:29:30 PM, Anonymous said…

    So I was thinkin' it sure would be nice to hear more about the South Channel. It's tough without Channel Man Stan. But hope you continue with your blog postings at some point...it is missed.

     

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